Long Lost Friends...
Hi everyone, Ash here
I wanted to share an email we sent to the community way back in September 2017! I've lived in London for almost 18 years now, and I consider it my home, but in this email I touch on my relationship with the county I was raised in, and left when I was 19 -
Foundations - September 2017
Ashley here! As some of you may be aware, I went back to my home city of Worcester at the weekend to take part in the Worcester 10k race - it was great to have my family out to support me! I asked Sam and a couple of my closest friends, Iva and Jake, to come along so that I could show them where I spent my childhood growing up until I moved to London when I was nineteen - 15 years ago! I can't quite believe that it has been so long that I moved to this amazing city...
I still remember packing up all my bags and squeezing them in to the car, setting off down the M40 and not looking back. My Dad was from London so I knew the city well and had always said I would move there when I was a 'grown up'. I first settled in Wood Green and had 3 jobs, working from 8am - midnight most days! That first year was exciting and exhausting in the same breath! Being young and naive I was filled with ambition and dreams and immaturity, making lots of mistakes as anyone in their early twenties does. At times it felt like London was not being kind to me (of course I blamed the city!) but as with most people who arrive here and never leave, I fell in love with London at the same time I met and fell in love with my fiancé Simon (my story with Simon will be saved for another email - or 10!). London is this amazing, vibrant place of opportunity and I am so grateful for that day I moved here back in September 2002. I have never looked back...
But, the older I get, the more I begin to appreciate where I am from. Some would say quite different to London, Worcestershire is a county that is quintessentially English with gorgeous countryside views, an historic cathedral and a famous sauce! It is peaceful but joyful at the same time and being back there this past weekend, showing my closest friends the places I knew and loved as a child, reaffirmed how lucky I was to be raised in such a wonderful part of the world. As a child the most important thing is to have a loving family who care for you and support you (which I fortunately had - stories for future emails!), but I think your surroundings are just as important, they are where memories are made, foundations are laid and dreams take place in, even 15 years after leaving!
Today I am grateful for Worcestershire, my hometown of Droitwich Spa and my home city of Worcester. You helped raise me so that I could go to 'big, bad London' and hold my own. You helped build my character to give me the courage to be successful and learn and grow and find myself and actually see that London is the most amazing city in the world. London is the place I met my wonderful fiancé, found my best friends, created my career from scratch and learnt to be happy - in body and mind.
London is home.
But Worcestershire, my friend, you will always be 'home, home'.
It's strange reading that and referring to Simon as my fiancé, now that we have been married for 2.5 years! It also reminded me how much I love my home town and that I've missed it these past few months (it's the longest time I've been away, as I try to visit my Mum every 6-8 weeks). The last time I was there was at the beginning of April for my brother's funeral. During that time I was revisiting many memories of him, in particular our childhood. Almost every memory is in our home town, and I wonder how many of us consider these towns and cities to be like long lost friends? Through all the good and bad times, these places stay true and faithful, inviting you back for a cup of tea and a catch up whenever you are ready...
I'm very grateful for all the lessons my home town taught me, for all the memories and the foundations to become the person I am today. I love the buzz of New York, always have fun in the sun in Spain and adore the seas and sand of the Caribbean, but London is my favourite place in the world! Worcestershire is a very close second...
Where are you from? It would be amazing to know more about you, hit reply and tell us
Have an amazing day
Sam and Ash
